Thank You For Making Me A Dad: Letter To Shawn’s Two Sons
Rewind to about a decade ago, and I may have told you I could wait another decade to have kids. Truth is I was scared. I didn’t have much time to be, because by the end of 2018 I would be a father twice over. Thank you for making me a dad, Colin and Mario.
I never felt quite ready to be a parent. It’s crazy, right?! You’ve got this little indefensible human that you bring into this often crazy world. Mentally, I feel like I never climbed out of 15 years old. Miscarriages and disappointments got in the way, but in late November 2016, an emergency c-section unveiled the most precious little boy.
Colin Eric (his first name is his mom’s late father’s middle name, and his middle name is my late brother’s first name) was there. Crying, messy, tiny and adorable. I couldn’t believe we just brought life into the world. I waited until mom could touch you skin to skin (cheek to cheek) first before I got my first touch.
You looked at me, held my finger, and I was done for.
Two years later, say hello to Mario Domenic. While I was nervous about having a second, time has absolutely proven it was the right move. Mario, you are a hilarious light who is fiery, competitive and fun as can be.
Admittedly I don’t know if I am the best baby dad. I loved both of you when they were tiny, but now that we can talk, hang out and have fun together, this is the peak!
There have been so many adventures over the years. From sleeping on Main Street Disneyland to road trips to the Redwoods, trips to Boston, Legoland and more. But the trips haven’t mattered… it’s been watching the both of you on this trip of life that has been the most fulfilling.
Seeing both of my boys step out and be better versions of me (as I tried to be a better version of my dad, and on and on). Seeing them explore the world, experience firsts, learn new things and rise to the occasion is the biggest honor.
Mario, this year you’ll enter Kindergarten and join your big brother. It is an incredible moment and a crazy example of how fast this life moves. It feels like yesterday when your brother was the one starting.
All I want for Father’s Day is to have quality time with my boys. You have made me so happy and I am looking forward to the days, months and years to come to see you guys thrive.
Thank you for making me a dad, Colin and Mario. I hope you’re proud of me because I’m so proud of you.
7 Awesome Activities For Dads And Kids This Father's Day
7) Go Fishing
If you’re looking for the perfect Father’s Day activity, try fishing. It’s great for fathers and kids of all ages!
Reel in the best memories this Father’s Day by going on a little fishing trip! The great thing about this activity is that it’s a great one no matter how young or old you are. There’s nothing like helping your son or daughter reel in their very first fish, and for those father-kiddo pairings that are seasoned fishers, now is the perfect time to head back out to your local pond. Try this activity for the perfect bonding moment.
6) Try Geocaching
Geocaching can be a great experience to share! Just get you GPS or smartphone, and begin your adventure!
This activity is probably for those father-kid pairs that are a bit older… But honestly, geocaching can be perfect for all ages too! It’s like your own little treasure hunt. It’s also a great way to get some exercise together, share an adventure, and bond over a shared challenge. It doesn’t get any better than that combo!
5) Create A Backyard Campground
A backyard campout is more than just pitching a tent in your backyard. It’s the perfect bonding experience for you and your little ones without having to spending a dime.
If you’re in a city where going camping isn’t really a possibility, why not create a campout of your own? This is the perfect activity especially for your little ones who would think this is the coolest activity in the world. Pitch a tent in your backyard, start a mini fire in your firepit to roast some marshmallows, and tell some spooky stories. Your kids, and your father, will undoubtedly love it. It’s quality time central!
4) Go On A Road Trip
Road tripping with your kids is the perfect way to catch some views you’ve never seen before. Not to mention, it’s the perfect route to take for priceless memories.
This one isn’t for everyone, but it doesn’t have to be a big thing! Even if you only road trip just outside of your city and take in the views, that is a perfect opportunity to create a memory with your loved ones. Don’t overthink it. Just get in your car, fill up your tank, and go! Who knows the adventure that awaits…
3) Volunteer
Volunteering is a great way to give back to the community with those you love most in your life. Try this experience to not only share a special memory with your kiddos, but to make a change in your local community.
To volunteer and give back to the community together is one of the best gifts you can give not only to the father in your life, but so many others as well this Father’s Day. Check with your local community organizations, and see if there are any volunteering opportunities in your area. This might be the perfect activity for those whose kids are old enough to properly volunteer, but some organizations would undoubtedly be open to help from little hands as well. Bonding AND lending a helping hand? Priceless.
2) Cook Together
Cooking together is a precious memory that all fathers and kids should have together. It’s also an affordable and delicious option this Father’s Day!
What activity is not only super fun to do together but gives you a delicious product in the end? Cooking together this Father’s Day is the perfect gift for dad because you’re giving him both quality time and something scrumptious to eat! Cooking is also perfect for all ages to participate. Find a recipe you’ve been really wanting to try, and go at it! Even if it turns out gross, the memories you’ve created together will be delightful.
1) Visit An Escape Room
Escape rooms offer a beautiful challenge for families and kids of most ages. If you’re looking for an adventure that won’t totally break the bank, this is it!
For those looking to have a thrilling Father’s Day, escape rooms are the perfect option. This activity is probably best suited for those with kiddos who are older, but who’s to say your younger ones wouldn’t enjoy the thrill of it all as well. Most cities have plenty of escape rooms to choose from. Pick one out that’s appealing to you and your children, and thank me later. Good luck!
